Showing posts with label rant. Show all posts
Showing posts with label rant. Show all posts

Friday, April 9, 2010

Pickiest Eater EVER!

How many of you have extremely picky eaters in your house?  I do!  My 2 and 1/2 year old son will hardly eat anything and it drives me crazy on a daily basis.  It just still doesn't make any sense to me because my husband and I are not picky eaters and we have been exposing him to all different kinds of foods since he was a baby...he just won't eat them! 

When he started on solids we were thinking, "wow, this is great, he loves everything!".  He ate EVERY cereal, fruit, veggie, meat we gave him...as long as it was the baby cereal or the baby food (we used Earth's Best Organic exclusively).  Once he started showing interest in our food we gave him bread, chicken, veggies, puffs, crackers and he ate everything.  Now, not so much.  I can't pinpoint the exact time he stopped trying foods but it was pretty sudden.  He now will only eat: YoBaby yogurt (I crush a vitamin into it each morning so at least he's getting vitamins...he won't eat them plain), Yoplait Whipped yogurt, graham crackers, saltine crackers (sometimes with peanut butter), taco meat (so I have to make tacos like, every week, and he won't eat it with a shell or any toppings), applesauce, a very occasional banana (used to eat them every day so maybe he got sick of them?), cheerios and rice chex cereals (won't eat them with milk, just plain), Cascadian Farms Chocolate Chip granola bars (won't eat any other kind of granola bars, I've tried), french fries (sometimes...only if they are the thin ones and even then he won't eat them all the time), Van de Kamp's crispy fish patties (rarely, but sometimes...he used to eat these all the time too so maybe he tired of them as well?) and very occasionally he will have a bite of a mozzarella cheese stick.  The only truly "bad" food he likes are chocolate chip cookies. 

Here he is with his Cascadian Farms chocolate chip granola bar...forgot to mention, we have to break it into little pieces too...he won't just take bites from the bar.

He used to eat so many other things and now, this is what I get to deal with on a daily basis and I just feel like a horrible mom.  I dread meal times.  I have tried everything, and still do.  We offer him what we are eating everyday and it is always "nope".  Everyone tells me he will outgrow this but I really don't think so.  He won't even try things!  What kid doesn't like ice cream, cake, pizza and macaroni and cheese?  Mine.  He won't even try candy or popsicles.  People laugh and think it's funny, but it really hurts my feelings because I feel responsible for him not wanting to try things.  I stopped taking him to meet other friends with kids for lunch because he won't eat anything and then I have to pretend it's funny or whatever.  I've tried making smoothies with yogurt and fruit and he tried the first one but now won't try them anymore.  He will drink most anything so I thought I would be able to get a fruit in him via a smoothie, but no.  I've tried making the taco meat with veggies in it and he just looks at it and won't eat it.  I don't know what else to do so if you are in a similar situation, what do you do?  I don't have any friends with children as picky as mine.  Sure, not all kids like peas or beans, but they usually will try things.  Ugh...I'm at my wits' end and am praying my daughter is not like this or else I may have a nervous breakdown.  I wish I knew where I went wrong so I don't make the same mistake again, but I really don't know.  I did everything the doctors told me, followed all the timelines and rules of introducing foods and it just stinks. 

Okay, I'm off to get him some plain cheerios and rice chex...

Thursday, March 25, 2010

Tired, thirsty and feeling big!

I'm almost 35 weeks pregnant and I'm almost miserable.  I'm constantly tired, always overly thirsty and in general, just feeling large, blobish and I waddle everywhere.  I must have blocked this portion of my first pregnancy out of my mind, because I honestly don't remember being this tired when I was pregnant with my son.  I remember not being able to sleep actually, but with this pregnancy I sleep at night but I am tired all day!  Probably has something to do with trying to keep up with my almost 2 and 1/2 year old son, but man, I'm spent by 7pm.  And the endless thirst?!?!  What the heck?!?!  I can't get enough to drink!  I drink so much water daily now that I feel as if I'm going to float away...but I'm still thirsty.  And right now, I'm going to have to drink some water before heading to bed, which is not a good idea, I know, seeing as it means I will be up all night peeing, but I can't handle how parched I am!  I definitely don't think this happened to me during my first pregnancy!  I'm less bloated this time as I just had to take off my wedding rings this week whereas with my son I think I was still in my second trimester when I took them off!

Okay, I have vented enough...have another OB/GYN appointment tomorrow and hubby is going so we can talk more with my doctor about the ultrasound results from last week.  Hopefully, everything goes well!  I'm off to bed...well, right after I drink some more water and waddle up the stairs!  :)

Monday, March 22, 2010

Case of the Mondays

Today was a miserable day...rainy and cold outside...after being 65+ and sunny last week!  What a downer!  My son must have known it was Monday and yucky outside because he was a bear all day long!  I don't have many of these days with him anymore because I usually can just take him outside or on an errand and he snaps out of his funk.  Not today.  I had to run 3 errands, but only finished one before I decided to call it a day. 

Before you have children, you just take for granted being able to do anything you want, whenever you want...I miss that somewhat...somedays...today.

Here's hoping tomorrow is sunnier, drier and happier here in MI and our house!

Thursday, March 4, 2010

New Pains

So, this pregnancy has not been the easiest for me and Tuesday night another fun thing popped up!  I now either have a pinched nerve of some sort on the left side of my lower back or some mystery symptom that is making my life even more fun!  As if the shortness of breath, heartburn, exhaustion and inability to eat more than a few bites wasn't enough right now, I have this random shooting pain (I get it whether sitting or standing and have no warning when it is about to happen) that radiates from my lower back and goes down my leg and up my back.  It is sometimes debilitating...and I have a 2 year old to run after!

Yesterday, I took Nolan to a gym and he kept jumping in the foam block pits they had...just a week ago when we went I was able to bend over and get him out if he was stuck, or even get into the pit a little and get him out.  Not yesterday!  Luckily, a few moms and a dad who were there stepped in to help him a few times but I still have two months of this pregnancy left!  I am so upset about this new development because it is going to limit what I can and cannot do with my son!  I want to enjoy these last few weeks with him and though I listed all of those other issues, I was able to function and do pretty much whatever I wanted to with Nolan.  Ugh.  I have my next doctor's appointment next Friday, but may have to call them sooner to see what I can do.  A few friends have mentioned a chiropractor and massage...so those may be options too...please pray this nerve just miraculously comes un-pinched or if it isn't that, please pray this mystery pain goes away on its' own VERY soon!!!

Monday, February 15, 2010

Pregnancy & Mommy Monkey...they don't mix well

Most women LOVE and I mean LOVE being pregnant...not me.  I love my son and I love my unborn daughter, but I would much rather just skip this whole pregnancy thing.  I have every pregnancy-related issue known to man, and I still have 11-12 weeks left!  I would even just skip to the actual delivery if I could...I actually loved delivering my son and wouldn't trade for anything the first moment I held him and looked into his eyes when he was placed on my chest right after birth.  It is something that still makes me teary.  I just am tired of heartburn, exhaustion, dry skin, backaches, hair growing out of control and on and on.  Does this make me a horrible person?  I hope not because I just adore my family...would just like to skip the 10 months of pregnancy...yes, it's 10 folks...at least the last time I looked 40 weeks doesn't equal 9 months!  Okay, that's my rant for the day.  Back to your regularly scheduled lives!